Original cover of TEND: A 90-Day Journal for Doctors Who Care for Everyone, by Dr. Sulthana Dhilras
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A 90-day journal for doctors

Dear Doctor, when was your last follow-up with yourself?

You care for everyone. Make a little room to care for yourself, too.

A pause for the person behind the care

Your own follow-up matters, too.

Doctors remember their patients' follow-up appointments, investigations and treatment plans. But between OPD, ward rounds, surgeries, emergencies and family responsibilities, their own health, rest, relationships and personal aspirations are often postponed.

TEND is a 90-day journal created to help doctors pause, reflect and protect one small thing that matters.

A gentle rhythm

Small check-ins. Room to reflect.

  • A 10-second daily check-in
  • A brief weekly reset
  • Space to reflect on health, energy, family, career, money, practice, meaning and rest
  • A gentle approach to intentional living

A look inside

Pages for real duty days

From a quick daily pulse to a weekly reflection, the pages offer different ways to pause and notice what matters to you.

Tend welcome page: A note before you begin
A note from Dr Dil
Tend page explaining how to use the journal
Three levels, no pressure
A daily Tend journal page
A ten-second daily pulse
A weekly Tend reflection page
Weekly reflection without scores
Tend meaning reflection page
Meaning, in your own way
Tend support page for after a hard case
Care after a hard case

About the author

Dr. Sulthana Dhilras J

MS, MCh Pediatric Surgery

TEND · 90 days

You care for everyone. It's time to TEND to yourself, too.